Wednesday, August 22, 2018

Crash Rich Asians -- Delightful But Misleading




The movie "Crazy Rich Asians" is a delightful rom com. I would like to start by congratulating legendary star Michelle Yeoh and  newbie Henry Golding for their brilliant performances. Yeoh beautifully accomplished the difficult task of making the audience sympathetic to Eleanor's station in old money Singapore. Despite the uproar over casting Golding as Nick because of his biracial ethnicity, I think he's a perfect choice. I've a cousin who's Peranakan Chinese who looks rather like Nick. In the hawker-centre scene, Golding seamlessly pulled off ordering an array of delectable foods in different dialects and Malay, which would have been difficult for an American-Chinese actor to accomplish.

For a film that is set in Singapore, it however lacks a certain sensibility to what Singapore is all about. Beginning the movie with the Napoleon quote "Let China sleep, for when she wakes, she will wake the world" is disconcerting. What, I ask, does that have to do with Singapore or the storyline? The quote is immediately followed by the scene of the Young family buying up a London hotel. Aren't the Youngs Singaporeans and not Chinese from China?

While the majority of Singaporeans are of Chinese descent, those whose ancestors came from China generations ago have little affinity to China. Growing up on the cusp of Singapore's independence, I was taught that we're first of all Singaporeans, and our ties to our respective ethnicities secondary. The majority of us went to English stream schools, studying Mandarin as our second language. We prefer curry puffs to dumplings. Singaporean Chinese happily adopt Western and Malay cultures while still holding on to aspects of Chinese traditions, being unabashedly proud of that heritage. China is not our motherland, nor Chinese our mother tongue. We're taught from young that we may be hua ren but we are definitely not zhong guo ren!
     
I would also differ with Peik Lin's summation of the wealth in Singapore. It was not mostly brought over from China. The wealthy in Singapore made their fortunes by settling in a country with a stable, lawful governance to foster their expansive enterprises.

Additionally, I am baffled by the director's decision not to highlight Singapore's ethnic diversity. The Young family's circle of friends could have been more diverse. My family certainly have good friends and even family members from different ethnic groups. I would think that in Nick's generation, diversity would play an even bigger role. At the very least, they could have cast wealthy Malays, Indians, Eurasians and internationals at the grandmother's soirée and the wedding. What a missed opportunity to bring in even richer, equally gorgeous fashions, especially the sarong kebaya to the haute couture-packed festivities.

I end with a quote from the Prime Minister of Singapore, Lee Hsien Loong, before his trip to China in April, 2018: "...Chinese tourists visit Singapore precisely because we are not another Chinese city. They find Singapore a fascinating multiracial and multi-religious country with different cultures and ways of life. Different ethnic groups and religious faiths co-exist side by side, harmoniously. We hope that when Chinese tourists visit us, they can see and appreciate how Singapore is unique, and how our multi-racial national identity influences our place in the world and relations with other countries."




Sunday, May 20, 2018

Parapets!


Cemetery in Gloucester by Edward Hopper

When you build a new house, you shall make a parapet for your roof, that you may not bring the guilt of blood upon your house, if anyone should fall from it.
 Deuteronomy 22:8


I don't know about you, but I am tired of hearing our government officials say they are offering their prayers and support after each mass shooting! I am not going to doubt the sincerity of their prayers, but I think they should keep their prayers private and work on making parapets!  They have the power to bring about stricter gun legislation to protect the country. But instead, they utter overarching sentiments about their prayers and "forever" support, sermonize about evil and "hearts without God". We don't need our government to philosophize about the origin of evil or look into the hearts of men, or even pray for us, but to first of all govern and govern with integrity and not act like demagogues and pander to powerful lobbyists. We need them to make and enforce laws to keep us safe, lest we be harmed (killed) by their cowardly inaction or desperate hold to power.

For the guilt of blood are upon those who fail to make parapets!

Thursday, May 10, 2018

Mother's Day 2018



My daughters flew in from Chicago and New York respectively to celebrate Mother's Day a couple of weekends early. Just as well, as it would have been too hot in Dallas this weekend to serve their lovingly curated feast in our library with every window opened to let in the delightful afternoon breeze. 

Every treat was homemade, from the Victoria sponge cake to the smoked salmon sandwiches. Along with the scrumptious scones and sandwiches, there were Singaporean delights like kueh dada and kueh lapis, served in the yellow enamel tiffin carrier that my mother handed down to me.

My mother would have enjoyed this elaborate afternoon tea and been tickled pink at the finesse of her granddaughters' lavish spread. She would have rated it high above our regular afternoon tea spots like the Tanglin Club and the Goodwood Hotel in Singapore!

I am grateful on this Mother's Day for my mother and my daughters, for their undying love, influence, guidance and care, and for the beauty and joy they bring into my life!

Happy Mother's Day!

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 

Sunday, April 8, 2018

Concrete Concept of Justice


"I can remember one of my teachers, Abraham Joshua Heschel, telling us that Plato and Aristotle would have laughed at the prophet Isaiah.  How petty to be concerned about one widow being cheated, one poor man starving.  Worry instead about the idea of Justice, the definition of equality, they would have told him.  But the reader of the Bible is told that the abstract concept of Justice is meaningless unless it is translated into the lives of every citizen."  Harold Kushner, To Life

There seems to be many battle cries these days for justice, for equality.  The phenomenon is to be applauded as it awakens us to the disparity, desperateness and brokenness of our world.  It is easy to get caught up with the big ideas of justice and equality and their grand (and sometimes subversive) rhetoric.  But such ideas are at best abstract and the rhetoric needlessly grandiose unless we draw from them the desire to affect indidual lives, to help in concrete ways.  Otherwise, we are merely caught up with phenomena of the day, feeling self-righteous and becoming contemptuous of others who are not as caught up with the wave.

[The LORD your God] executes justice for the fatherless and the widow, and loves the sojourner, giving him food and clothing. - Deuteronomy 20:18
Wash yourselves; make yourselves clean; remove the evil of your deeds from before my eyes; cease to do evil, learn to do good; seek justice, correct oppression; bring justice to the fatherless, plead the widow's cause. - Isaiah 1:16-17
Religion that is pure and undefiled before God the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world. - James1.27

Saturday, August 6, 2016

Consider What You Sow

Figures in a Dutch Street by Willem Koekkoek, 

Sow a thought, and you reap an act;
Sow an act, and you reap a habit;
Sow a habit, and you reap a character;
Sow a character, and you reap a destiny.

Samuel Smiles (1812-1904)


Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap. 
Galatians 6:7





Friday, June 10, 2016

God Moves in a Mysterious Way

Van Gogh, Almond Blossom

  1. I was reminded of William Cowper's (1731-1800) beautiful hymn this morning and thought I'd share it with you.  Cowper suffered from deep depression for most of his life; his heartfelt hymns and poems reflect a heart that held on to God's mercies, oftentimes in the midst of despair.  His works bring solace as they help lift my eyes above my circumstances to rest on a gracious God and trust in his loving, wonderful mysterious way.

  2. God moves in a mysterious way
    His wonders to perform;
    He plants His footsteps in the sea
    And rides upon the storm.
  3. Deep in unfathomable mines
    Of never failing skill
    He treasures up His bright designs
    And works His sov’reign will.
  4. Ye fearful saints, fresh courage take;
    The clouds ye so much dread
    Are big with mercy and shall break
    In blessings on your head.
  5. Judge not the Lord by feeble sense,
    But trust Him for His grace;
    Behind a frowning providence
    He hides a smiling face.
  6. His purposes will ripen fast,
    Unfolding every hour;
    The bud may have a bitter taste,
    But sweet will be the flow’r.
  7. Blind unbelief is sure to err
    And scan His work in vain;
    God is His own interpreter,
    And He will make it plain.


Lamentations 3:19-26
Remember my affliction and my wanderings, the wormwood and the gall! My soul continually remembers it and is bowed down within me. But this I call to mind,and therefore I have hope: The steadfast love of the LORD never ceases;his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning;great is your faithfulness. “The LORD is my portion,” says my soul,“therefore I will hope in him.” The LORD is good to those who wait for him,to the soul who seeks him. It is good that one should wait quietlyfor the salvation of the LORD.

Wednesday, June 1, 2016

What does the LORD require of you?



'Josephine and Mercie' by Edmund Charles Tarbell
Micah 6:8  
He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the LORD require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?  
  This is one of my favorite Scripture verses.  I even painted the verse on chairs at my home.  As I reflected on it the past few days, it crossed my mind that this relatively short verse could sum up how I should seek to live each day.

There are three basic things listed, easy for my mind to grab hold of as I go about my day-
1. To do justice/justly
2. To love mercy/kindness
3. To walk humbly with my God

As I go about the day doing my work - interacting with people in person, over the phone, online; and even thinking to myself...I  can easily remind myself of these three requirements which to me consist of, at the very least, doing all things with integrity, standing up against injustice; showing kindness and mercy, with patience and gentleness; and knowing my status before my God (not some impersonal God out there but my God, the God who is personal, who created and redeemed me, who knows and loves me, and who is with me wherever I go).

It has helped me to have these three requirements in my head throughout the day.  My naturally impatient, self-centered self with a tendency towards rudeness would now pause and think if I am showing kindness in how I speak to the person across from me or on the phone (I'm especially guilty of rudeness here), or if I am true to my word, or if I am being cowardly and selfish by not doing my part in securing hope for the oppressed (not necessarily always on a grand scale but equally crucial in everyday encounters like speaking up for the widow who is being bullied).

But more importantly, the verse reminds me to start each day cognizant of my status before my God, humbly obeying Him in everything and every way as His Spirit leads, not for fear of punishment by some distant oppressive God, but out of love of a personal God who loves me first and is ever present with me.  To me, it is like a child holding on tightly to her father with adoration and respect as he leads her with loving authority and impeccable wisdom.

I have failed and will continue to fail as I go about my day, stumbling as I act out in anger or without integrity, or  when I treat God and man with contempt, seeking to do things my way.  But my God's love is steadfast, He does not give up easily and is gracious to let me see my erring ways,then pulls me back up and set me once again on the journey with Him for another mile, for another day.

Before I end this post, I would like to point out that other than the use of the personal possessive pronoun "your" before "God," the name of God used in this verse "YHWH," translated "I AM WHO I AM" or "I AM" ("the LORD" in English Bibles) was first revealed to the Israelites during the Exodus.  God told Moses to tell the people before they set out that it's "I AM" who had  sent him to lead them out of Egypt (Exodus 3:14).  Up to this point, God's chosen people, including the Patriarchs, knew God only by titles.  YHWH is the first personal proper name that God revealed of Himself. It is this YHWH, this personal God who redeemed His people from the bondage of the Egyptians and who was with them every step of the way to the promised land.  It is YHWH (the LORD) who saved His people and overthrew all who opposed Him.

It is the same God, revealed now in the fullness of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit that is leading me to live my days to do justice, to love mercy and to live humbly before my God.