Wednesday, August 22, 2018

Crash Rich Asians -- Delightful But Misleading




The movie "Crazy Rich Asians" is a delightful rom com. I would like to start by congratulating legendary star Michelle Yeoh and  newbie Henry Golding for their brilliant performances. Yeoh beautifully accomplished the difficult task of making the audience sympathetic to Eleanor's station in old money Singapore. Despite the uproar over casting Golding as Nick because of his biracial ethnicity, I think he's a perfect choice. I've a cousin who's Peranakan Chinese who looks rather like Nick. In the hawker-centre scene, Golding seamlessly pulled off ordering an array of delectable foods in different dialects and Malay, which would have been difficult for an American-Chinese actor to accomplish.

For a film that is set in Singapore, it however lacks a certain sensibility to what Singapore is all about. Beginning the movie with the Napoleon quote "Let China sleep, for when she wakes, she will wake the world" is disconcerting. What, I ask, does that have to do with Singapore or the storyline? The quote is immediately followed by the scene of the Young family buying up a London hotel. Aren't the Youngs Singaporeans and not Chinese from China?

While the majority of Singaporeans are of Chinese descent, those whose ancestors came from China generations ago have little affinity to China. Growing up on the cusp of Singapore's independence, I was taught that we're first of all Singaporeans, and our ties to our respective ethnicities secondary. The majority of us went to English stream schools, studying Mandarin as our second language. We prefer curry puffs to dumplings. Singaporean Chinese happily adopt Western and Malay cultures while still holding on to aspects of Chinese traditions, being unabashedly proud of that heritage. China is not our motherland, nor Chinese our mother tongue. We're taught from young that we may be hua ren but we are definitely not zhong guo ren!
     
I would also differ with Peik Lin's summation of the wealth in Singapore. It was not mostly brought over from China. The wealthy in Singapore made their fortunes by settling in a country with a stable, lawful governance to foster their expansive enterprises.

Additionally, I am baffled by the director's decision not to highlight Singapore's ethnic diversity. The Young family's circle of friends could have been more diverse. My family certainly have good friends and even family members from different ethnic groups. I would think that in Nick's generation, diversity would play an even bigger role. At the very least, they could have cast wealthy Malays, Indians, Eurasians and internationals at the grandmother's soirée and the wedding. What a missed opportunity to bring in even richer, equally gorgeous fashions, especially the sarong kebaya to the haute couture-packed festivities.

I end with a quote from the Prime Minister of Singapore, Lee Hsien Loong, before his trip to China in April, 2018: "...Chinese tourists visit Singapore precisely because we are not another Chinese city. They find Singapore a fascinating multiracial and multi-religious country with different cultures and ways of life. Different ethnic groups and religious faiths co-exist side by side, harmoniously. We hope that when Chinese tourists visit us, they can see and appreciate how Singapore is unique, and how our multi-racial national identity influences our place in the world and relations with other countries."




Sunday, May 20, 2018

Parapets!


Cemetery in Gloucester by Edward Hopper

When you build a new house, you shall make a parapet for your roof, that you may not bring the guilt of blood upon your house, if anyone should fall from it.
 Deuteronomy 22:8


I don't know about you, but I am tired of hearing our government officials say they are offering their prayers and support after each mass shooting! I am not going to doubt the sincerity of their prayers, but I think they should keep their prayers private and work on making parapets!  They have the power to bring about stricter gun legislation to protect the country. But instead, they utter overarching sentiments about their prayers and "forever" support, sermonize about evil and "hearts without God". We don't need our government to philosophize about the origin of evil or look into the hearts of men, or even pray for us, but to first of all govern and govern with integrity and not act like demagogues and pander to powerful lobbyists. We need them to make and enforce laws to keep us safe, lest we be harmed (killed) by their cowardly inaction or desperate hold to power.

For the guilt of blood are upon those who fail to make parapets!

Thursday, May 10, 2018

Mother's Day 2018



My daughters flew in from Chicago and New York respectively to celebrate Mother's Day a couple of weekends early. Just as well, as it would have been too hot in Dallas this weekend to serve their lovingly curated feast in our library with every window opened to let in the delightful afternoon breeze. 

Every treat was homemade, from the Victoria sponge cake to the smoked salmon sandwiches. Along with the scrumptious scones and sandwiches, there were Singaporean delights like kueh dada and kueh lapis, served in the yellow enamel tiffin carrier that my mother handed down to me.

My mother would have enjoyed this elaborate afternoon tea and been tickled pink at the finesse of her granddaughters' lavish spread. She would have rated it high above our regular afternoon tea spots like the Tanglin Club and the Goodwood Hotel in Singapore!

I am grateful on this Mother's Day for my mother and my daughters, for their undying love, influence, guidance and care, and for the beauty and joy they bring into my life!

Happy Mother's Day!

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 

Sunday, April 8, 2018

Concrete Concept of Justice


"I can remember one of my teachers, Abraham Joshua Heschel, telling us that Plato and Aristotle would have laughed at the prophet Isaiah.  How petty to be concerned about one widow being cheated, one poor man starving.  Worry instead about the idea of Justice, the definition of equality, they would have told him.  But the reader of the Bible is told that the abstract concept of Justice is meaningless unless it is translated into the lives of every citizen."  Harold Kushner, To Life

There seems to be many battle cries these days for justice, for equality.  The phenomenon is to be applauded as it awakens us to the disparity, desperateness and brokenness of our world.  It is easy to get caught up with the big ideas of justice and equality and their grand (and sometimes subversive) rhetoric.  But such ideas are at best abstract and the rhetoric needlessly grandiose unless we draw from them the desire to affect indidual lives, to help in concrete ways.  Otherwise, we are merely caught up with phenomena of the day, feeling self-righteous and becoming contemptuous of others who are not as caught up with the wave.

[The LORD your God] executes justice for the fatherless and the widow, and loves the sojourner, giving him food and clothing. - Deuteronomy 20:18
Wash yourselves; make yourselves clean; remove the evil of your deeds from before my eyes; cease to do evil, learn to do good; seek justice, correct oppression; bring justice to the fatherless, plead the widow's cause. - Isaiah 1:16-17
Religion that is pure and undefiled before God the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world. - James1.27